Hi Everyone, Jenny here,
I read somewhere (maybe in a college psych book, maybe in Dear Abby) that having a father who is absent or emotionally distant may lead to gender confusion. This is probably as good a place as any to test this theory.
I have to admit the theory may have some validity in my life. My father died in a car accident in 1993 when I was 10. My mother has never re-married. Even before my father died, he was not what you would call a "hands-on" dad. With seven children to support, he often ended up working weekends to help make ends meet. When he was home, he was usually too tired or grumpy to be much fun. He mostly served as the enforcer in the family. All my mother had to say if we had misbehaved was "wait until your father gets home." We would be the best-behaved kids on the block for the rest of the day hoping she would "forget" to tell him what we had done wrong.
I have to say that as a result I was much closer to my mom as I was growing up. I wonder if the lack of a significant male role model (I am the oldest boy in the family with 3 older sisters) affected me in becoming a crossdresser.
I would be curious what other members think on this issue?