Dear sisters,
I'm new to CD (a late bloomer)...preparing to visit the mall dressed in maybe a month or so, which will be my first time out in the "regular" non-CD world...and I've been thinking, maybe I don't actually feel I need to pass. Maybe I don't need to fool people into assuming I'm a woman.
What I'm thinking hard about is, rather than passing, I want to carry it. I want to present myself with such confidence that even if some random mall-goer realizes I'm a biological male under my dress and makeup and jewelry s/he won't care because I present bold and strong and free.
Is passing the ultimate goal? Or is better approach maybe to be a little more in the world's face and say by how we dress and walk and talk, "Hey, I'm a mix of genders, and I'm OK with that, and I'm going to be me here and now in front of you...so deal with it!"?
I've got the activist impulse, but still I'm still a newbie...sisters, what do you think?
Lisa