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As a closet C/D I have always thought about this. I once saw a movie of some military men before a battle tell his buddy what to do with a taped over shoebox that could not be sent to his wife should he be killed.
How many of us are in that same position today with our cross dressing?
Jessica
My SO knows now so I'm assuming she would just toss everything.
If you're worried, keep all your stuff in one box. Leave it in the garage with a note on it. The note is addressed to you and reads, "Please hold this stuff for me. Thanks," After that, end the note with the name of the guy you hate the worst.
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Great idea!. Going right know to look for the sharpieOriginally Posted by Persephone
we have 3 girls only one knows and she says that she will have a very good wardrobe shame about the shoes
It's in plain sight even though I haven't been using it lately. My family knows anyway. Hopefully, they would be able to put it to good use by giving it to someone in need.
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Since the wife knows she'll be the one to dispose of it. It is all in one closet in a room that I use for my other "hobby". Disposal probably be to give all items in good shape to a local charity thrift shop. I do like the one idea though of marking it so that a guy I might not like gets it.
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My wife will find it. She won't have to look too hard... it's hanging in the closet right next to her things.
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If I died today, my wife would easily find my stuff. You see, she's the one who bought most of it for me!
This is something I used to think about before coming out to my wife though. I was always uncomfortable with the thought of her finding my secret stash. I also figured she'd figure things out when she found it and probably still love me. If she didn't, well - I'd be dead and it probably wouldn't bother me too much at that point.
It does sit easier on the mind when the one you live with knows.
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That would be scary. My wife and family do not know as I amto the closet, I think I need to figure out the one guy I hate the most.
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I guess the cops would find it when my sister calls them to check on me because I haven't answered the phone or emails for a few days. It won't matter to me one iota who finds it. I'll be taking a dirt nap.
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I have most of my stuff in a couple of foot lockers. I have a note on each with instructions to burn without opening after I die. My GGSO says I'm nuts if I think my family, especially my daughter, will do that. She may be right.
Oh Well! That's what they get for not following my wishes. My SO lives a lot closer to me than my family. Hopefully, she will get to it first.
This, of course, presents a bit of a dilemma. Do you want a quick surprise death, with no chance of purging? Or, a longerer, lingering disease with time to cover your tracks?
I guess if I go first, my wife will have a lot more room in the closet, and a lot more jewelry, and what she doesn't want she knows a nice consignment shop, that she has given a lot of my old stuff to in the past, thanks to my old stuff they think she has good taste in clothes. I have always wondered what those women would say if they knew what they where buying came from a guy!
Tina
Well it would not be a case of finding it
My wife has known my clothes are beside hers and have been for a long time
my wife, no problem. Of course, if she died with me? ruh roh!
Doesn't bother me as my kids know I am living female now.
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Presuming my wife has to dispose of my clothes, there wouldn't be any schock about the clothing. If she were to start adding up the total cost, well, that just might cause her to "join" me in the hereafter. I don't think she fully understands just how much I've spent over the years.
If my daughter has to "clean out" my things, she might grab what she thinks will fit her, and the rest would go to charity.
If my brother has to do the "cleanup" .... well, I'd kinda like to be able to see the expression on his face.
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This isn't a topic i generally like to think about.... but my mum and dad would find my stuff. It'd be kinda interesting to know if they'd tell the rest of my immediate family or not.
Hopefully my so, soon to be wife. If that does not work out then my parents. To bad for them.
I have a pact with an old friend (who has no idea). If he dies, I miss the funeral and break into his house and steal his computer and a box in the garage (wonder what he is in to) and he will do the same for me.
I'll be dead, so does it really matter who finds out? The family would find out eventually anyways.
It's hard to tell. My parents live about a hour away but don't drive very much anymore. I'm figuring that the landlord or a coworker who knows I dress would be the first to see my things and then my parents and sister. Who knows maybe my coworker would hide the stuff if she arrived on the scene first. Hmm? I guess I could ask her to remove my things should something happen to me. I believe that she would do that for me. In any case if my demise comes quickly, people finding my things is probably going to be the very last thing on my mind.
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I plan to take it all with me. I have the perfect dress picked out for me for the funeral viewing.
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