My wife is aware of my CDing and is accepting, but not participatory, which I understand and accept. I sometimes sleep in a nightgown, which I usually only put on if she is already asleep or I go to bed before her. I at times wear panties with her knowledge, and she will wash and put away my things if she does the laundry. I try to be discreet but not hidden, and dress when home alone as the mood strikes me, always carefull to change before she gets home.
I would love one day to come home and find she had laid my clothes on the bed to be wearing when she gets home, or to put my nightgown out for me to wear at night, or give me some lingerie for Xmas or birthday.
I'm just wondering what others might fantasize about in this regard.