Why do so many CD’s seem to think a compliment, or a favorable comment they receive from a GG is any different, or has more significance than the very same compliment coming from a man or another CD?
I believe the sincerity in giving the compliment, something as simple as you look pretty, or you have a nice figure, or your make-up looks super today is equal, but there seems to be a different significance taken by CD’s on the receiving end depending on the source. Men have always, always been the ones to chase and compliment women, not the other way around. CD’s look like women and if you receive a compliment it is because someone, it doesn’t matter who, sees you as, or takes you to be a woman. Why wouldn’t the compliment mean the same or have the same impact on you? Men have had practice and they know how to do it with grace and sometimes great fanfare. But most women don’t want to sound all gushy and syrupy when complimenting another female and that is what you are, or at least appear to be.
I suspect that it isn’t so much the compliment per se, but the hidden meaning that your dressing has been accepted, or acknowledged to some degree by a female and you have just been told in so many words that you are ok after all, even in a dress. Also, you know in your heart of hearts that a CD is a man, and you are not gay.
Or is it because you believe we have a better fashion sense (not true) than you, or we do our make-up better (also not true), and we should know more about how to look like a girl. That’s a weird comment isn’t it? Duh! Or is there an unspoken understanding among men that there is a hidden BS factor or something when giving a compliment to a woman and GG a compliment rings more true?