I think it's safe to say that all of us would say they wouldn't murder someone to protect their secret (I sure hope that's true!) so then where is your line, and where do you think the line should be?
actually that would probably depend on what the chances were of getting away with the murder.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.