Lorileah, on another thread made the statement,
"On that note, I have not been to the local T-bars for awhile. One reason was that I felt like I was in enemy territory. I try to look good when I dress. I am not always successful and often feel like I fail but in a public place where there are a lot of "T-girls" I get the cold shoulder and the look down the nose."
I hadn't thought about that type of thing for a while, but I was reminded because of Lorileah's post and my own experience last night.
I am away on business, in Austin, and decided to go out to a local tg friendly bar downtown. I saw a couple of tgirls, but we all sorta were like ships in the night and they had people with them. Then I saw two other girls, one of which, seemed to be on a date. She was very attractive, dressed very sexy, but not too much. Anyway, I was at the bar getting a drink, and she looked me over, and just gave me a sorta dismissive look, almost derisive in a way. A couple of minutes later, she glanced my way again, and did it again.
Now I don't let things like that bother me (and it IS possible I misread her), but I was just really disappointed in her supposed attitude. I had seen that kinda thing before, usually with girls that are "further along the path than me", but I don't get it. Don't they remember where they came from?
I know in Austin and San Antonio, where I live, I have met many tg people that are great to be with, but this......
Anybody else have similar experiences? Has it thrown you off going out?