I've noticed a trend whenever one of us brings up the subject of passing.
Whenever someone wants to know whether or not they pass or how they getting better at passing, 10 times out of 10 they get a response along the lines of,
"It's not passing that matters. It's how YOU feel."
or,
"It's not about looks, its acceptance. Act like you belong there, and people will treat you accordingly."
Now these statements, and statements like them are generally 100% true, but they don't answer the question. It almost seems as though some peopel assume that if you ask about passing, then it must be how you define yourself and you need to get your priorities straight. Passing is fun, makes you feel pretty, and it's a fun goal. Wanting to pass doesn't necessarily mean that you need to rearrange your priorities, it just means that you want to look like a girl. You shouldn't use it to validate who you are, but I for one would rather look like a frumpy woman than a gorgeous tranny. It's gg's very existence that I find beauty in.
Be who you are first and foremost, but is there anything wrong with wanting to be so pretty that people think you're a GG?