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    Question Mother's Day

    My wife and I were talking and I jokenly said it would be a good day to come out to our children, ages 22 & 19. She said I was wanting to get a Mothers Day present for myself.
    Now my question is two fold, 1) How many have children who know about your CDing? 2) If so do you get a present on Mothers Day?
    GG's I would also like to know, " Would you be offended if your CD husband got a present for MOthers Day?
    Everybody, do think this would be crossing the line?

    No, my children do not know. No I did not get a present. I believe my wife would be a litttle upset if I was to get a present. And yes I personnaly think this would be crossing the line.



    ps: I am not real good with computers, I just now figured out how to post on here. That is why this wasn't up earlier.
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    1, our daughter knows, she is 25 years old, told here when she was 15

    2, No, I don't get a present on mothers day, thats what fathers day is for.

    3, Im not a GG, but I think my wife would be bothered by it.

    4, crossing the line? No, but, it would all depend on your level of CDing, and your families level of acceptance.
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    Motherhood

    It came very clearly to me on the first day I became a father - Motherhood is sacred, do not mess with it. Until we have personally borne the pain of child birth, we do not deserve to be honored on Mother's Day.

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    There are a lot of issues here that I see. Getting dressed and having your kids know about it does not constitute being a mother to me. But the greatest issue is that it is your SO's day. Our dressing can stomp on a lot of things. This should be one of those sacred things that doesn't get touched. If my SO put a suit and tie on, that doesn't make her my kids father.

    Now for those that have transitioned, it may get stickier. I would have to think about that a bit and it would be good to hear from those who have made that move. At first blush, I would still stick with father's day for the same reasons I gave above.

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    The question was asked about CD's .

    Mothers Day is a special day set aside so a mother's children can spend a day making her feel special. Usually done through the giving of cards, small presents, loving pictures made for mom from the heart. In short, a day to say " I love you Mom "

    A CD who dresses, can portray a woman, he can never portray a mom as that job is taken already. There is a day of the year set aside for fathers, strangely called Fathers Day, again if your So ever wanted to portray a man, quite acceptable, but that would never mean that she could be the father as that job is already taken.
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    So far I agree 100%. I believe that Motherhood is a sacred thing, a wonderful blessing from our maker. Could not have said or exsprecessed it better. Thank all of you for your participation.

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    My wife and kids know, but I agree with everyone else here - taking the spotlight away from mom on her special day is just wrong, wrong, wrong. This goes back to that thread with the anonymous comments from the GGs: You're treating the missus horribly if you try to make every moment about how girly you are, and don't give her *at the minimum* equal time on the pedestal.

    My wife worked hard for over 20 years to be a mother to our kids, and she deserves every minute of honor and more for that hard work. One day a year isn't enough.

    And don't forget your own mom, if she's still on this planet!

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    I have one daughter that knows and I didn't gat a Happy Mothers day nor did i expect one. However, most of friends that know Kendra sent me Mothers Day text messages pretty much all day, Jerks. LOL

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