I'm feeling a bit hurt and upset this morning because of some things a friend said to me last night. She's someone that I met online and told about my CDing. She has taken me shopping and helped me learn how to do makeup. The only time I've been completely dressed, makeup, wig and all, is with her. Based on this information she sounds like someone who is accepting and supportive right?
She says to me last night that her brother in law had 6 sisters growing up and had worn dresses several times but was not a crossdresser. I asked her how she knew for sure or could she totally sure about that?
Her answer was: "Because my brother-in-law is a really good guy and he would never do that to his wife and kids." She went on to say that my crossdressing is wrong, evil and malicious and that it was wrong for me to date someone and not tell them about my dressing. I told her that I was a good person and that one fact doesn't make me a bad person but she disagrees.
We live in a very conservative area and she believes that no woman will love or accept me as long as I crossdress and that I need to quit for good.
I asked her why she takes me shopping and supports me if she thinks it's so evil and malicious. She just said, "I don't care what you do."
I can't help but to feel that on her part it's malicious to support and help someone with something like this and then tell them they are evil and bad because they do it. She's a very stubborn person and doesn't listen to what I say. Is it worth it to have a "supportive" friend with this kind of situation? I don't even think I can say that she's "supportive" with that attitude. I wish I knew what to say to her.
Thoughts? Comments? Feedback?