I have always wondered if I was born a Woman would I want to be a man!!! This is truly a question we all ponder about. The answer to the question is Defiantly YES I have dated girls, guys, TS;s and I have lived as a man and to the best of my ability a woman. I would not have surgury to change now but if I was to be reborn and I was a girl I would be Happy. Just my confussion!!
Love Always!
Wendi
Oh yeh it would be great to go out wearing skirt and heels and blouse etc while as a man but i can imagine the looks I'd get, and prefer to dress completely as a woman to blend in.Oh well perhaps one day society will change, dont know if I will though Frenchie Gina
i love being male and all that goes with it. I do however have a weakness for lingerie, pvc and BDSM and although I am a rampant heterosexual, I love dressing as a woman.
Peace through superior dress sense..
I think I would have prefered to be born a girl. But ever since I first got interested in female clothing around 12 years old, I fantasized about being a shape shifter. That way, I could be many attractive women of my choosing instead of being stuck in one form. I still carry this fantasy to today.
I like being both a guy and a girl, I can have the best of both worlds and don't have to put up with the things I think I would find unappealing as a woman, mainly mensturation and pregnancy. I like my private body parts too much and would never consider surgery to change genders as I know that I would still technically be a man and wouldn't experience the feelings a woman does as I would still have a male part, it would just be turned outside in.
I agree with most of what Joanie said I wouldn't have minded being born a girl, but it seems like a lot to deal with all the time. Would've been a very girly bi/lesbian girl though
But yeah, I actually enjoy being both and having the ability to change from one to the other when i choose to I do like being a guy though. Although I wish I had more time to dress as Samantha... we are complex people aren't we?!
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] x o x o x o Samantha Girl!!! * remember girls, sexiness is a state of mind!!!
I would love to wake up tomorrow morning and be a woman. I'm content with being male and it is not torturing me since I have a good life surrounded by good people.
I've no interest in being a woman.
JJ xx
I would love to transition but I do not want to give up my family. I think there are many of us in this situation.
Ronda
I think back to growing up male. I don't look back at the high school years with any fond remembrances. For me High School was really hell... and I was a guy! I seem to think that High School can be that much worse for gg's. "Working on the mysterys without any clues" (Bob Seger)
I think the point is we look back on our lives with today's eyes..and knowledge. If there was a magic wand and I could go back and start with being a high school girl and then move forward... but still know what I know now..... I'd do it in a heartbeat.... It's funny... but I would have no interest going back and being a guy again... even knowing what I know now...
Sorry for how long this is..... I really appreciate the forum for giving me the opportunity to think about these things and verbalize them.... although I tend to the Verbose!!
Thanks,
Jessica_M
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I enjoy being a male to much to live as a female full time, but l would like to spend more time in girl mode then I currently do.
-Sarah
It definitely crossed my mind a lot when I was in my early-mid 20's, but now I'm 100% happy with being a man, and dressing as a woman every now and then.
But having boobs might be cool though
Its a great question and as you see the answers are all over the place. I love the duality of personna that I have now. I am afraid that if I were to go 24/7 or flip a switch and become a woman that I would lose the excitement that I enjoy now. I still have guilt associated with dressing so I have a ways to go to become comfortable with who I am. Just my two cents.
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I think the difference is in the definitions - perhaps US definitions - I am not a woman trapped in a male body - I would love to be as feminine as possible when en femme but I do not want to do it 24/7 - I do wonder what it would be like to be born a woman but I do not think it would be as much fun. The only bit I am jealous of is the ability to go out and wear anything. I prefer very sexy looks and ultra feminine any way
"A girl can dream and when you cannot dream there is always shopping lol!"
I love wearing dresses and skirts do not want to be a woman just want to dress like one