In one controvertial thread (which does not need reviving!) someone suggested there was a lot of pent-up anger here.
That is actually to be expected if we follow the trends of other oppressed groups especially with internalised oppression such as internalised transphobia. And in many other communities it results in factions within them being very hostile to other factions, a destructive internecine struggle.
So do you feel you, or CDs in general have pent-up anger?
How do you deal with it if you do?
I find with some things that anger me, including a few TG issues, that i direct that anger into doing something to change things. So I write letters and emails and blog and article comments, in as calm a tone as possible, to try and change things, from Dr Zucker's TG child-torture to the guy who on radio said he'd hit his son with his shoe if he ever CDd. Afterwards I feel better, especially knowing that such acts aren't a waste of time as I've seen more than a few get results.
For other things there's violent videogames.
Though sometimes I find i'm resisting CDing unconciously again, that indeed is pent-up anger and find facing that and CDing fully calms me down as the anger came from the internal conflict in the first place.