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    Feminizing yourself

    Hi, I was just wondering in what ways have you girls ever tried to make yourself more feminine. I know I for one have gotten my ears pierced, grown my hair long and I shave my legs. I have also considered getting hair extensions or fake nails or manicures Any ideas?

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    Sure here are things I do -

    Pierces ears. Gender neutral yes but you can wear femme earrings.

    Hairstyle - Mine is feminine, but not long in back.

    Tweeze the beard - there are arguments for and against doing this, but for me, it works well. Yes it grows back, but I have not had a "shadow" pers se in a couple weeks. Intial time investment is about 10 to 15 hours altogether

    Body hair shaving - legs, underarms, and the 100 hairs on my chest.

    Learn to move, gesture and walk more like a woman. Not like a ghey man, but a woman.

    Eyebrows - shape them nicely.
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    This is what I've done:

    - pierced ears, three in each ear

    - pierced naval piercing

    - long hair(about two feet) also worn feminine like

    - long nails, with nail polish

    - eye brow shaping

    - HRT

    - feminine glasses

    - keeping whole body hairless

    There should be more, but those should be the main ones.
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    A cute Kitty I am!

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    Oh sure, that's an easy one. I wax my legs and arms, thread my eyebrows, have one piercing in each ear and I wear pink!

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    I cook, wash the dishes, and do laundry.

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    Lol, always done what Miss Construed said. Pierced ears, pierced belly button, electrolysis, shaved all over, brows tweezed, manicured nails, bitchy attitude, sit down to pee.

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    I shave everything from the neck down (minus the patch).

    I exercise my butt off to maintain a nice, thin waist and nice legs.

    I've lost some weight in recent months (wasn't too heavy before, but want to be more girly in figure).

    I'm currently working on vocal exercises in an effort to feminze my voice... which isn't go so well just yet, but I'm working on it.

    I've been practicing feminine movements and motions in front of my wife in an effort to get that aspect down better.

    That's about all I can think of for now.
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    I always laugh when I shave my fingers. No sacrifice is too great for beauty.
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    It is a real challenge as i like being a guy, but there are times it is so amazing to slip into the female persona and see how good you can make it.

    so to help it along i have,

    • Complete Body Shave
    • Pierced my ears myself
    • Shaped eyebrows
    • Got a nice manicure


    can't think of anything else at the moment. I guess a corset doesn't really count.

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    I have worked on feminizing myself and I continue to do so. It seems slow and sometimes difficult,
    I think that it is worth the efforts.
    warmly, Linnea

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    Well.....I wear dresses and high heels.

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    dresses, slips, stockings lipstick all in public, it's fun

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    In the past few years I've ....

    Pierced both my ears
    Tweezed, thinned, and shaped eyebrows
    No body hair anywhere except for one small patch (you know where) - I've waxed and/or shaved for years
    10 sessions of laser facial hair removal on full face and neck
    Painted toe nails 24/7
    Long, shaped, and painted fingernails
    Under dressing and wearing obvious girly clothes in boy mode (when not fully en femme)

    I think my mannerisms are pretty girly anyway. My voice is the next step for me
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissConstrued View Post
    I cook, wash the dishes, and do laundry.


    Volunteer with other women at my son's school and with Ladies Auxilliary at my congregation.

    Try to learn patience.

    Had laser and some electrology on face.

    Long hair.

    Long acrylic nails for about a decade now.

    Keep body hair shaved.

    Carry a purse "en drab" as well as en femme.

    Pierced ears.

    Eyebrows professionally done once a month.

    Pedicure every two months.

    Moisturize, moisturize, moisturize.

    Etc., etc., etc.

    Gee, great question! Now I'm beginning to wonder what I do/should do for the guy I stuffed in the corner!
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    I also keep my underarms shaved.
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    Drab mode

    Both ears pierced (one has two pierces)
    Keep my hands nice and neat. Manicured with pinky ring and bracelet
    Pedicure
    All body hair shaved/epilated
    Moisturize entire body and use expensive kind on face and hands
    Growing my hair longer (still way too short)
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    Well, let's see...

    eyebrows tweezed and trimmed
    underarms and bikini area epilated
    arms trimmed very short
    legs epilated most months, very short in the summer, Ok, I'm getting there
    Toe nails painted
    toe ring
    ankle bracelet most days
    long finger nails, clear matte nail polish
    very fine gold necklace
    panties every day

    That's my everyday look.
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    Whew, where to begin ... top to bottom, these are my 24/7 features:

    Long, colored and femme styled hair
    Thin, arched eyebrows
    Permanent eyeliner, eyeshadow and lip color
    Pierced ears (lots), nose, lip, nipples
    Shaved all over
    Long acrylic nails (often polished)
    Feminine tattoos on back, side, around navel, legs, feet
    Polished toenails

    It's not easy to mistake me for a guy these days.

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    I really don't do much to look feminine since my body kind of borders between male and female and my size and height is right around the typical size and height of most women.
    I'm fortunate I don't have a lot of body hair, but I still have shave my legs and my face. Other than that, that's about it.
    I've never taken any kind hormones or did any kind of feminization surgery.

    Hugs!
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    I have peirced my ears, shaved, moisturized and today had my nails done and brows waxed. This weekend I picked up a couple tank tops, two pairs of shoes, a sundress, skirt and a nice blouse. Okay it was just a little more than normal but this was the weekend. The cool thing was the sales gal at Old Navy (20 something) said she thought the tank tops and blouse would look good on me. I said I think you are right, with a big smile. LOL

    Huggs Keli

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    I have:

    1. Gel nails- painted or coloerd gel( pink with black tips right now)
    2. pedicures- with painted toe nails
    3. waxed or threaded eye brows
    4. face mosterizer
    5. have done HRT, but stopped
    6. girl jeans
    7. panties
    8. both ears periced

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    Pierced ears, shaved legs, eye brows shaped, painted toes and body shaved, except arms. Wife does not like that. That's about as far as I can go.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bland867 View Post
    Hi, I was just wondering in what ways have you girls ever tried to make yourself more feminine. I know I for one have gotten my ears pierced, grown my hair long and I shave my legs. I have also considered getting hair extensions or fake nails or manicures Any ideas?
    1). Shaved legs
    2). Waxed my arms and legs
    3). Removed most other body hair
    4). Manicures and pedicures
    5). Acrylic nails (only twice)
    6). Nail art done on fingers and toes
    7). Had my ears pierced twice in each ear; have femme earrings
    8). Eyebrows waxed/threaded to thinner, more arched femme shape
    9). Make-up all the time (less obvious when in drab)
    10). Wear panties and cami underneath everyday, bra when I can get away with it
    11). Grew my hair much longer (shoulder length)
    12). Toe rings, women's sandals, women's pants

    Maybe in the future:
    A). Laser hair removal (beard and legs)
    B). Navel piercing
    C). Female hairstyle
    D). HRT?


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