Arianna's right, Andrea. Most of us are just doing what we can to get by with what we have. Why crack on us like this? What is this going to accomplish? Our behavior is "not normal" and "needs to be corrected"?
Well, as others have already asked, what do you consider "normal"? Should we all suddenly lose our individuality and fly straight? Or are you just suggesting that we stop flitting around in high heels? By your standards, I assume, "normal" is doing only what society in general deems acceptable, as long as it's not illegal. Any movement to one side or the other is "not normal".
And how would you suggest that we go about correcting this abnormality? I've been exercising this particular behavior pattern on one level or another for 37 years. Should I just suddenly up and quit? I don't even know how to not crossdress. And not doing this would probably make me morose and unhappy. It that an acceptable "normal" for you? Is that really better? Look, if you are unhappy being a crossdresser (assuming that you are a crossdresser), then by all means, quit if you can. As for me, it helps keep me sane and happy.
As for that long tenure that Dina alluded to (and the reason I question whether you are actually a crossdresser)...you joined in January of 2006, and you are already on your 11th post! Wow! That's almost one post every four months! Slow down, honey! It's overwhelming us!