There are frequent threads about coming out to friends and family. People talk about how things went when they came out, or seek advice on coming out.
I have little to no desire to come out to my family. I really don't care if they find out or not, but I feel no need to tell them or explain anything. Same with friends. Maybe this is because I've grown so used to playing the character of Gabe around them for so long and dislike that part (the whole "act" I've had to put on in order to appear masculine enough to satisfy society, etc.).
My relationships/friendships as Gabe have always been pretty shallow anyway (minus romantic relationships). It's hard for me to become real friends with people when I can never truly be myself around them.
As I move forward in life, I find myself wanting instead to make new friends/acquaintances as Gabrielle and only as Gabrielle. I'd rather people get to know my feminine side without knowing my man-side at all. This is where my personal interest in friendship resides today - NOT in sharing with the ones I know as Gabe, but in being Gabrielle (or my happy side) with those I meet from now on.
Does anyone else feel like this or anything similar? Perhaps you had this outlook at one point, but something changed it?
I understand this may be the case with those undergoing or planning on SRS, but that's not where I'm heading. I'm a crossdresser who exists on both sides of the gender spectrum. I prefer Gabrielle over Gabe, but have no plans to extinguish Gabe. He's a part of me too.