GG anonymous/ REVISITED
The other thread had great feedback so we are trying something else where we can get feedback from all you ladies.
Anonymously written for a number of reasons ( partner might be a member, shy, just do not want our business out there or any reason really)
So this is our first one and hope you ladies can help.
GG anonymous = Is that all there is?
Ladies I think I got this wrong Please help.
I thought, the goal was for my partner to just be their girl self.But I really think now it might be like a high esp all the posts here lately about is it addictive, what a rush ect.
It looks like to me now the more his wife accepts, the further they have to go to get the same kick you have to top things to get the best high.
Our story I was told and after a bit and lots of research I decided I wanted my [partner to experience everything they felt they missed.Started out slowly their expectations were min.
Walking around the neighbor hood at dark
Getting an entire wardrobe
Riding in the car
The park
Going to a gay club
Going to cd monthly meetings
Going to a reg club
Vacation as girl
Going to the mall
Going to the grocery
Picnics
Movie
Dance
Pride parade
Prom
Having friends to do things with
Dinner partys
Dinner dates
Coffee dates with others
Basically everything she wants to do
NOW the problem is this
The everyday things do not measure up for her, she goes into a depression. I do ask her what is there you want to do?
She has no answer AND I have no answers. I look forward to a picnic, or a dance or shopping but it is now.....well we already did that So I am hurt and sad because I saw it as being the girl she always felt inside but now I am scared it is we have to top things always to keep it fun for her. And really if we have done everything she ever wanted, how do I deal with the depression?