As you may recall, my crossdressing got serious a couple of years ago at age 55. Yes, like many of you, I played around with femme clothing at a very young age and had aspirations of being a girl. Most of that was forgotten until a couple of years ago.
The reemergence of the feminine feelings really rattled my ego and I fought back and resisted. Years of conditioning quickly came to the defense and managed to suppress any self admission that any part of me was actually female in nature.
During a recent battle (a week or so ago), a thought came to me, it was something like "don't fight the feelings, don't resist, open yourself to these feelings".
Well, I did and an indescribable joy descended on me. Suddenly, I was a peace with myself. My internal defense had been breached and I was in full acceptance of myself.
I am what I am -- I am different (perhaps) from most other guys I see and interact with. Interestingly enough, I have a lot more in common with guys I find on this site. I admit that there is a strong female component to my personality and that's OK -- it gives me a great deal of pleasure and peace.
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>>>> So, to the question -- have you arrived at self-acceptance or are you in denial, fighting your self-imposed demons?
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