Hi everyone! this is my first thread on here and im pretty nervous!
I found out that my husband cross dresses about 2 months ago. It was a learning curve for both of us in that he had never dressed in womens clothes before although he had had desires for 20 years. ( I didn't believe him about this but he swears its true - he has never even tried on previous girlfriends undies etc)
Anyway, within the space of 2 months, my husband now boasts a wardrobe of womens clothes and shoes worth over £3k, wears a wig, make up and prosthetic breasts. All in front of me.
I try to be as understanding as possible but sometimes feel that he takes advantage of my understanding and doesnt think of me and how this sudden transformation has affected me.
I have never spoken to anyone about this and but I have done lots of research online and am reading "My Husband Betty" to try and get my head round it and in doing so I would say that it appears from my research that it is quite rare for a man to appear fully dressed as a women in front of his wife and definitely so soon after first telling her.
Its hard because I dont have any benchmark - I dont know whether its me being unreasonable and I should just let him get on with it and try to deal with it.
All I do know is that whilst I dont mind the "theory" behind cross dressing and talking to my husband about it and helping him choose clothes (although I wish he didnt buy so many of the things!) its a different story for me dealing with him completely dressed up.
How many of you CDers fully dress in front of your wife/ partner regularly and how long did it take from the initial time that you told her about your CDing?
Also, is your wife willing to be intimate with you whilst you are dressed?
Sorry for the long thread, I just really need to try to get my head round all of this and to find a happy place for both of us.