I recently started going to a therapist at the U of M sexual Health clinic. First off I started going because I told my wife that I am a crossdresser, and it is more for her than myself. I am totally happy with myself. well I just had my first solo meeting with him and he made a few suggestions
#1 Try wearing mens underwear to see how it affects my mood?
#2 Find an alternate place to dress
#3 Go out en femme (completely dressed once a week)
So try explaining this to your wife who is not completely acceptable and has never seen me dressed.
The mens underwear, just can't do it They are so ugly to me and I hate them
so I assume that my mood would be horrible.
An alternate place to dress, such as a unisex lockerroom at the YMCA (his suggestion) I think I would be asked to leave but would love to do this, just not at my families YMCA as my kids go all the time.
Go out en femme, I love the idea of this
He is suggesting this because he believes that I am wearing my panties 24/7 because I cannot dress as much as I want to so I am compensating for innadequacies in the amount of time that I dress.
I think he is correct here, What do you think, I would love to hear your opinions. Keri