Hello, I don't know if this is the correct forum to post this so please bear with me if it's misplaced.
I'm 24, the first crossdressing experience I remember was when I was about 8, I tried my mom's Wilma Flintstone costume and improvised makeup. Since then I've gone through stages where I've used my mom's clothes, there was a two year period where every friday my parents would be out of the house all day so I would raid her closet and just watch tv or do homework while dressed. As I have no sisters, I was really excited when a cousin lived with us for a year as I could use all her clothes when she was not around, I was around 14 at the time. Up until around 3 years ago I pretended I was a girl on some chatrooms and while playing World of Warcraft.
The first person I ever told about my crossdressing was a female friend, let's call her B, in highschool, she accepted it but didn't encourage it. She helped me dress up one day at my request, she even did a little makeup on me. I've always wanted to pretend I was a girl with a GG and talk about clothes, men and female topics but I felt ashamed to do it with her even though I was dressed. I have told more people since, close friends, they all had similar reactions where they would not freak out, but not encourage it.
B asked me if I wanted to dress up as a nurse for a halloween, she would dress up as a nurse too as would a mutual male friend of ours which as far as I know has no interest in crossdressing. It was a great experience and I felt at peace with myself, something I didn't feel much at that time.
I came out to first girlfriend, I was about 18 at the time, she didn't understand and we broke up a few months after. I've never had many problems with my crossdressing until I came out to my last girlfriend a day before she left to study abroad in Argentina for a semester, she had told me about her trichotillomania (impulse control disorder, she pulls her hair off) a day before and felt I could share my crossdressing with her.
We have talked since (she has been gone for a month), I joined this forum because of her strong, visceral and unaccepting initial reaction to my crossdressing. We have talked, she has read some resources and now that she understands it a bit more she is more accepting of the fact that I like to dress up. She suggested that I go to a therapist and I thought it was a great idea, find myself while she's gone, I can't ask her to accept me if I am not sure of who she would be accepting. I need to find myself first.
B gave me the first panties I ever owned as a gift, and I've owned a few and purged a few times as well, I have never owned anything more than panties. Two weeks ago I bought my first ones by myself, I bought 3: thong, bikini and boyshorts. It was in Target and to be honest, I got a bigger rush of emotion buying them than getting to my place and trying them on and even though I now live in my own place where I'm alone most of the time I haven't worn them as much as I thought.
Thanks for reading through all of it. Any comment is greatly appreciated. Any questions I will answer.