Originally Posted by KateSpade83
Well said!
I will never mess around with a guy.... I love women too much!
However, I get a real kick when being approached by men! It happened on a busy street in daylight this spring. I was coming out of a Mac store where I had my eyes done. I was wearing tight jeans, heels, long french nails and my wig (long natural hair to lower back). Two guys followed me to the parking lot and finally started talking to me. Since my voice is not as feminine as I would like, they realize that I was a CD....but however complemented me on my looks.
I felt like a million bucks.
A.
It's pretty hard to catch something you don't go fishing for.
I like boys and all that, but I tend to make it pretty clear that I'm flying a Jolly Roger, even if my vessel looks like it belongs in the Spanish armada. If I didn't, that'd be dishonest.
To put it another way, if someone sails into dock looking for a little lobster tail, I got what they need, but if they're looking specifically for Maine lobster, I'm going to tell them that they've hit the wrong port.
Suffice it to say, my trade routes are not limited and I'll anchor up for new opportunities anywhere that looks redeeming, fun, and honest.
Now, I don't think any more nautical non-sequiturs can fit here.
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I've had guys hit on me, but a few have been drunk, unshaven, smelly and persistant so I've said no, or not interested. However, I've said yes to 1 or 2 who've been very gentleman-like. Why not if they treat you like a lady?
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Yes I have the honour to know you very well indeed... In a strictly platonic way of course
Kate,
You wrote a nice defence but there was no need. You're out there living it... kudos
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The lovers have flown...
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Well Kate that's true of all of us. I promise you I only ever put the best of the best photos of myself on this site - Some of my pics are really awful and I delete them as soon as I can !
That pink fog can be a real killer! Unless the people you interact with actually tell you what they are thinking...and remember, most of them will lie about it, you will never know for sure. It is okay to beleive in yourself...if you didn't on some level, none of us would be able to step outside in heels.
From my limited experience, a jaw drop means something major is probably out of place because the only other women that would get that reaction is a super model who is wearing something revealing (many of us can look good, but not that good!). The other reactions mentioned also tend to indicate there might be a problem. This doesn't mean it can't happen occasionally, but no...I think 'catching a guys heart' is not a reality for me.
My goal is to blend. Oh...I also wear a wedding ring that keeps most of the guys away...so maybe that's skewing my observations.
Um hmm.....
His heart??? Hardly. I try to avoid men when I'm dressed. The scarriest thing that ever happened to me while dressed was in the middle of the day, downtown. I was walking across the patio area of a high-rise office building when this short, muscle-bound looking guy came out. He was about 50 feet away, and looked me over in a way that made me very uncomfortable. I was already feeling a little over exposed, as it was one of the rare times I was wearing a miniskirt. He was walking the same direction I was, and turned around twice to check me out. I pretended to have a phone call, and paused for a few minutes to let him get ahead of me. He disappeared around the corner, and after a while I continued. When I rounded the corner, there he was! I don't know if he'd stepped back into the building to wait on me or what. He asked me if I wanted a ride. I declined, of course. He persisted. I crossed the street in the middle of the block, hoping to get away. He crossed with me. I was still a block from my car. He then said, "Can I ask you a question?". I stoped and said yes. When I turned around, he looked me up and down and said, "Are you a dude?" I said, yes. He said, "Well, still, do you want a ride?" Again I said no. He said, "Are you a cop?" I said no, and said I'm really not interested, and I really need to go. After several steps I turned around to see if he was following me. I have no idea where he went. I got in my car and circled the block to make sure he wasn't following me. He wasn't. I think he thought I WAS a cop! I was so glad he was gone. He really scared me!
I don't think that had anything to do with his heart!
Kate, whether or not we are into men is one thing but the attention is still nice.
I get different responses myself - Like one day I was out walking, some creep leaned out his car window and started barking, like some real creeps do when they think a woman is ugly. So later that same morning on my trip, some guy was smiling at me When he thought I was out of earshot I hear him say "Look at that behind" in a way like he enjoyed seeing it. That pretty much calmed the "Wanting to kick someone's ass" feeling that Mr Barking creep gave me.
It takes a true Erin to be a pain in the assatar.
Once I had a guy at a bar grab me by the hand and said "come on you are going home with me!". He had bought me a drink earlier and I had thanked but told him I was not interested. He kept up his shenanigans for the next couple hours. When he grabbed my hand I had had enough. Thats is when I pulled him in a little closer with my free hand and lectured him on the finer points of humanity.
I am not sure why he thought this was ok in the first place, or why me! I always figured it was the dim lights, dark atmosphere, way too much too much to drink, and closing time was nearing. The SO thought is was funny!!!
Yep...and one I know of that I'm pretty sure cried unfortunately.Words were exchanged for a bit but,he finally started to get that there was no changing my mind.He said,"...but you were everything I ever wanted"..then got upset and had to walk away.Nothing I can do about it.I want nothing to do with being in a relationship with a guy.
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Kate,
I have a few questions regarding your OP. Please see below;
What exactly does a "like he's speechless and in love with me" expression look like? I really would like to know as I have had men stop and have expressions on their faces which range from "You've been read", to "Wow, nice butt and legs". I just want to know for when/if it happens.
Odds are with this one that you have been read and he is just not sure how to react, so opts to simply say "Hi" and leave it at that.
I'd be real careful in this type of situation, there were 2 of them and only 1 of you. This could have turned out real nasty for you.
Then why post something like this? Numerous times you have come here and posted how you have "Quit Crossdressing", or even under your avatar is says EX CD? So, honestly Kate, which is it? Have you quit crossdressing but just haven't told yourself yet?
Kandis
Someone once told me "Put on Your big girl panties and deal with it". If they only knew, I WAS ALREADY WEARING THEM.
I wear the bras and panties so my wife doesn't have to.
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Kate it occurs to me you don't hang around in bars too often when dressed--I have and I'll say that lots of men and some women have hit on me---did they lose their hearts?---I'm pretty sure that it was another part of their anotomy which was controlling their actions
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I was kissed by a man once in a bar.. it was the most awesome day of my life.
Guess you got a dose of what many GG's go thru in a bar!! Glad everything turned out OK. You handled it well.
Miranda I think that is why my SO was laughing! I have never treated a woman like that and maybe that is why I found it so disturbing or maybe just because it was. It is kind of funny..I am not into guys at all but that thought never crossed my mind at the time.... I was too pissed about the rude behavior. Happily it only happened once and like I said I think there was a lot of drink involved.
And confident! good for you!!
I don't know if I ever captured any hearts, but I sure had a lot of fun with a few of them....
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