Thanks for the thoughts, advice, and the smiles all. Still, no way around it - today is gonna be a bummer and at this point it really has little to do with the fact that I'm not traveling pretty. It has far more to do with fact that my wife is quite clearly resenting what I am. Rational or not, logical or not, she is unhappy with me. I can point out to her all day long that I have to leave - that's my job. There is no logical reason in the world that I shouldn't take advantage of the fact that I have to leave for my job. The problem is that somewhere in the back of her head and in her emotions, she's got it twisted around to where she feels as if I chose to leave so I can cross dress, and oh, by the way, I might do a little work while I'm out there having fun. It's a woman thing. I can do the guy thing and explain how irrational this is all day long, and all it's going to do is dig the wound a little deeper (yeah, I tried that before).