Originally Posted by
Miranda09
This really is a great thread Stephanie with alot of very interesting and insightful responses. My take on all of this really has to do with the me, me, me syndrome. As others have said, it's fine to express yourself as a CDer, but one should never force this upon others who are not comfortable with it. As for the children, they should be protected above all else. Children can be very cruel to each other, and this would only provide more ammo for those who like to make fun of others to boost their own insecurities. I sort of liken this to those who insist on forcing their religous beliefs on others, and when they don't accept, they become insensed. Politics can be alot like this as well. CDing is a very special activity for me, and I certainly don't want to taint it by forcing this aspect of my life upon others. But, as with any social issue, people are indeed extremely complex and emotional creatures and CDing seems to really bring this to the surface.
Just one more comment...We as a community want to be accepted by society. It will be a long time before this happens completely and it doesn't help things any by INSISTING that others accept us no matter what. It'll come..it'll just take time!