I went to my first and the only support group in the charleston sc area for the GLBTQ community. My fiance and I were the only ones there besides the two volunteer ladies there. I did not want to stay when I realized no one else was coming. While I was there the ladies said I was the only Xdresser that has ever been there since the four years they started. Needless to say I am not going back but will keep in touch with them so they can let me know if a Xdresser ever pops up there. I have done searching through myspace and found about three xdressers near me but all of them have not came out to their wifes (all three were married) so I knew that a friendship would not ever come to be. I just want to know why most of the younger xdressers in my area are so insecure and scared to come out to their SOs before they get married so they can have a decent relationship and a friendship with another xdresser. Just annoying