I told my wife while we were dating. She couldn't believe it and told me to prove it. I went and got dressing in a hot pink dress with matching sling back 4" heels, long blonde wig. She didn't like my taste in clothing, saying it was outdated. She said she couldn't believe I dressed, asked if I liked men, said she could understand if I were a petite man.
She came around and eventually we married, then the bucket dropped. She couldn't believe my collection of heels, dresses, wigs, jewelry, and my skill at makeup. She eventually turned against the idea and started with the names, insults, etc.
She now lives with the knowledge, even teases me from time to time........