I always wondered what it would be like to freely dress as a girl or woman for a day as I never had the benefit of this experience. I have been crossdressing since I was 5 years old and have crossdressed all throughout the years secretly and always by myself. I have always wanted to dress as a girl each Halloween and never was able to summon the courage to do so as I felt I would tip off the fact that I am a life long crossdresser because I feel if I were able to go out in public in one of my pretty dresses and wear all the other feminine stuff like bra, panty, body briefer, pantyhose and wig I would truly love it and people would think I'm having too much fun in my feminine atire. My other concern is trying to explain why I am dressing as a woman to my 10 year old son. I have this intense need and desire to dress up and for one day when it can be ok I am putting all my feelings and emotions into the experience and am not sure if I should. If I was able to how would it affect me? If I get a taste of going out all dressed up for an entire day I am afraid I might want to do it again and again. It is such a crazy life we as crossdressers live especially the closet ones like myself. I also do not want to hurt my son or my wife. I would jump at the opportunity to dress for Halloween but I am with such mixed feelings. I just wish it was so much easier to dress up. It seems I carry this burden with me and I wish it wasn't one of those things you have to keep as a big secret!
The joy of Halloween is the fun in dressing up and I wish I could find the courage to do so but am just so uncertain if I should and I know if I do it I will love it! Is there anyone who can give me sound advice as to whether I should go out there in my favorite dress and walk around trick or treating with my 10 year old son or just underdress like I always do. I do wear dresses underneath my clothes at work and weekends. It is ashame I can't freely dress up.
I would wear a beautiful dress with a pretty cardigan and pantyhose and nice comfortable womens flat heel shoes. Otherwiae I will just wear my typical male clothing with my dress underneath my clothes like I do every other day. What would you suggest I do for Halloween? I would really appreciate your feedback.
Thank you!
emmi