First off, I'd like to say hello again. I haven't visited for a while, partially because I met someone two years ago. Things are great between us, and we're living together, and yes I disclosed my secret to her. (I didn't want her to stumble across my stash while cleaning or something and get scared away; we had been dating only a few months when she first picked up my room while I was out ... women. In a somewhat interesting twist, she was quite taken with my stash of porn.) Anyway, she was none too pleased, and said that while she understood my desire to embrace the female presence I had been missing before her, that it also ruined her perception of me as a man and the top in the relationship. Together we discarded all of the clothes, my wig which had just been purchased a month or so before; everything.
Honestly, I didn't miss it for a while; she had replaced, in many ways, what I felt I had been missing. A few months back the compulsion to dress came rushing back. I spoke with her about it, and she was uncomfortable talking about it. However it came to that if I wanted to dress, I'm an adult and can do as I please, but she'll have nothing to do with it.
Today, I went on a shopping spree for some essentials, but now I'm living in fear that she'll find 'em again. What if she does? What if she walks in on me? How will she take it if she comes home to my shaved legs? Gals, I need help!
edit: I know if I were giving advise to some one else I'd say something to the effect of: "Do what you feel is right, but be ready to accept the consequences?" Thoughts?