Ok, Gina started a "truth" thread. Now, it seems to be changing into a, "Am I passable?", thread! I don't want to hijack it, so here goes!
I recently attended the SCC in Atlanta. It was my FIRST time around 1000's of CDs. So, how many did I see that were REALLY passable? At close range, and in MY opinion, maybe a dozen! And, if they spoke, most then failed!
How many there did I think may have been FEMALES? I remember having questions about 2! And, I only heard one of those 2 speak. So, I'm fairly sure she was someone's GG SO! If not, she could pass ANYWHERE, ANYTIME! So, MAYBE one, out of a 1000!?
Now, did that BOTHER the other "girls" there? NOT ONE BIT! They strutted their stuff in the hotel, out of the hotel, and all over Atlanta!
Here's the message I got about passing from the SCC:
You're NOT going to pass everywhere, every time, with everyone! If that bothers u, stay in the closet! Like me.
Try to look your regular, everyday female best, if u desire to "fit in". And, be a drag queen at the clubs.
The girls I went out with, didn't give a darn if someone noticed we weren't females. ( Good thing, because a number of us didn't!) We weren't bothering anyone, and if someone started bothering US, I would have felt SORRY for THEM!
If I got a big thrill going out dressed, I'd do it! And, I'd go out in a minute, to be with other girls!
Otherwise, I believe going out dressed, has little to do with passing for CDs that do it regularly!
Ok, blast away, all!