There are many threads asking the question "Do I pass?"
IMHO few of us "pass" as in totally perceived as female. However, it is not my goal to "pass" as above.
My SO has taught me to aim at "Blending". Mixing in with the world as me without causing a wake (as follows a boat in the water), without causing a stir, just part of existence like everyone else.
I believe I succeed nearly all the time. When I don't succeed then it would appear that people keep their comments to themselves or wait until I have gone - that works for me.
Of course, some of us like to cause a stir and announce our presence and like the attention - well that's great! But I suppose you aren't seeking to pass either!.
So, guys and gals, I suggest we make it easier on ourselves and dress and behave so as to blend in rather that aim at the Nirvana of passing!
Just sharing my view. Feel free to agree/disagree but I am NOT saying anyone SHOULD do it my way or that my way is THE way.
I still believe in each to his/her own way.