Hello;
New here. Been with my boyfriend for 2 years. Figured out that he was a CD relatively early on. He under dresses every day and fully dresses about twice a week. We don't live together due to kids and probably won't for a few years when the kiddies are out of the house. We do spend about 3 kid free nights a week together. Often those nights are spent in with him dressing. As far as I know I'm the only one who knows.
The issue that I am having trouble with is getting him to talk about it. He claims that he doesn't feel any different when he dresses and just doesn't want to talk about it. He's very very closed about his feelings re: CDing and I've tried to get him to open up but he just won't. I'm totally fine with it...have shopped with and for him, help him with his make-up, have been totally supportive. He's quite obviously way happier and more relaxed and fun when he's dresses, but his inability to talk about it is really starting to get to me. I think he's so ashamed on some level or in some sort of denial that he just doesn't want to deal with his feelings, maybe...who knows. It's frustrating and sometimes the whole thing just freaks me out. Mainly because I don't know what's going on in his mind. Maybe he doesn't know either.
I believe that I'm the first person in his life that he's dressed with, but who knows. He just won't go there. I'm not really sure about exactly what I'm asking, but I would appreciate any insight that any of you may have about how to get him to talk or what might be going on in his mind.
Thanks in advance!