Many of you know my story already. If not you can look at some of my ealier posts. I want to update my life as it is now. I have not dressed in 4 months. I have completely closed Jenna out of my life. The reason I am doing this is to save my marriage. What I did not realize was that what it would do to me. What I always have a hard time explaining in my posts is how against it my wife is. She does not even want me thinking about it. So 4 months ago I embarked on a journey to end crossdressing in my life once and for all. What I am finding out now is that this probably cannot happen. The desire is starting to pull me back in. I cannot sleep at night, I am always distracted. I do not feel like myself. I keep telling myself that this is for the better, but part of me knows that this thought will not last. The bottom line is that I miss being Jenna, alot. How long can I keep suppressing this? At what cost to me? Believe me if there was any way to approach Maria(my wife) and try to explain this to her, I would. She does not want to understand it, as far as she is concerned, I am sick to be like this. She thinks that just because I have these feelings inside me, I am sick and need medication. She does not want to be educated about it, she just wants it stopped. I look at my body with hair all over it and want it off! I want to polish my nails and get all made up. I want to have my legs encased in silk stockings and my body in beautiful lingerie. But going back to this would end everything, my marriage and my life with my children. Because believe me, Maria would do everything in her power to destroy me. So I wonder, what do I do as the need for Jenna eventually overcomes me? What would you all do?