[SIZE="2"]Self-discovery does not require the presence of an outsider, IMHO (why do you think it's called self discovery?). I think you already know where you have led yourself, and where you are going, so you might as well go further, or deeper, until you find your ultimate fulfillment. You are Alice, and you are also the "looking glass" – if you can understand that conundrum you may not even require the services of an eight ball for enlightenment… [/SIZE]Originally Posted by SuzanneBender