Having a hard time with this. When I was drinking it all came so naturally and without inhibition. Now I fell like I'm stuck in mud. My wife is totally supportive but not real sexual lately (definitely not because of my CD habits). We've had some house guests lately and still have one for a few weeks more so I haven't been able to dress up and play on the computer or anything like that. I've decided to quit drinking again. The last time I was sober for 8 years and felt no sexual desires whatsoever. Anybody with similar experiences and advice?