The previous thread about dating guys was getting pretty long and was addressing several different topics of sexuality and dating, so I thought I'd start another thread to focus on one specific question........
You gurls that said you had dated guys and liked the whole "being treated like a lady" experience, is exactly what I'm looking for. So tell me how/where you met a man that didn't mind dating a CD!
Hugs, Tracy
I am so happy this thread has started.I'd love to get dressed,go out and maybe meet a guy.I'm just curious,that's all.
Obviously you look for places where open minded people go.
Second star to the right and straight on till morning
Many of the girls here have gone to gay bars and have been hit on so I would say that's a good place to start.
Put a little lipstick on you'll feel better
It depends on the size of the city, but there are usually some clubs that gay oriented. Some in larger cities become specific in advertising their "TG" orientation.
Although I am always clear that my desire is focused specifically upon "passable TG" on any forum, dating site, etc. I always receive lots of replies from "guys", giving it a shot anyway, hehe. Many seem sane and genuine. There are several sites (free, sort of), that cater to dating CD,TS,TG etc.
Of course, you never know if a guy is really "Chester the Molester" in real life, so you have to use common sense and stay safe.
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the easiest place to meet a man would be at any truckstop, i go there all the time!
The rules are the same for everyone if you are dating. You will not meet other if you are hiding in your rooms.
2 weeks ago I was in San Diego and went out to eat en femme by myself at a local restaurant. I was happy reading my book and enjoying the view, but I was asked to join a group of people. To make a long story short they asked me to join because they were trying to set a guy from their group up with me. My point is I would have never been in that postion had I not been willing to go out on my own.
If you are looking for Mr. Right you never know where you are going to meet him.
See yourself as a soul with a body not a body with a soul" Dr. Wayne Dyer
I actually met a guy at the grocery while I was dressed.We dated for a year or so.
He was all gay I was mostly bi so it didn't work out in the long run.
I have met guys that seem intersted in CD's at book stores quite a bit.I was looking at travel books one day and a guy asked me where I was thinking about going.I said I would love to go to Spain one day and he said he had been there and said it was very nice.
Then he asked you really look like a woman and present very well but you are male aren't you?I said yes and thank you for being descreet.
He said would you like to go out sometime?
I said sure and we have been out several times.A nice guy but still hung on his ex wife.
would love to know
Craigslist is a reputable website for finding quality relationships.
It takes a true Erin to be a pain in the assatar.
I wouldn't mind the answer to that question either!
you'ed probably stand a better chance if you went to a gay bar...in drab.
If you go to a gay bar..... people are gonna think, and you know how tired you are of that..Originally Posted by bridget jones
Just messin with ya.
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I moved to New York to get away from having to go to GLBLT bars to meet people.
Most smaller cities just don't have sophisticated night spots. You have three basic choices in Pittsburgh or Cleveland, for example, neighborhood bars where everyone knows everyone and nobody would be seen dead with a TV even if they are interested, clubs full of thirty-something teenagers and music playing at 110 decibels, and a few GLBT bars.
In the city there are plenty of the kinds of bars you would find in Pittsburgh or Cleveland, but if you have a couple of friends to hang with, and it doesn't matter if they are gender girls, trans-girls, gay men or straight men, it's easy to go to regular bars and meet people and be absolutely truthful about one's sexuality. Being New York, the chances of meeting someone who is interested, and might even have some experience with us, is relatively higher than most places, and being New York one usually doesn't get stared at like a five-legged horse even after coming clean.
There are bars in the city which are T-oriented, but they are Meat Markets for the most part, same as any other place. In fact, I would guess that at the famous TG-bars most of the girls are pro's (and some of them are gorgeous) and most of the patrons are tourists.
I wouldn't go out alone, someone posted a thread on that, dressed as a woman, and no gender women I know go out to bars alone either. It's just not what women do unless they are absolutely looking for a pickup.
I was with a good GG friend,going to clubs. She was friends with guys who were into crossdressers/bisexuals ect. It was months before I would trust going out with any of them. As time went on and you get to know these people then a relationship can start from there.
I am who I am...I am very happy with who I am! I am transgender! Time for others to deal with it or get out of my way!
I've been picked up on in TG clubs (the worst, imo), at the mall, in bookstores, in straight bars, in mixed (straight or gay or Lesbian) bars.
They've been working class guys, retired businessmen, a director, a policeman, and a lawyer -- how's that for a cross-section?
Guys who would go out with a T-girl are all over the place, but they're probably a small percent of the population.
If you're out and about, and are reasonably presentable, and maybe if you're in a bigger city, it's probably inevitable.
I'm not into the bar scene, most of the guys I've met have been from Craigslist, a catchy personal with a picture in the T4M Miscellaneous Romance will get a lot of responses...you have to be super careful to weed out the sickos, and if you do land a live one, choose a meeting place where you'll be safe. Honestly, there's so much risk of possible physical harm, let alone STDs, that I haven't done Craigslist in a while.
I've never been on the army but I get very lucky with the military personnel
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