Hello everyone... I've been lurking here for a while but haven't posted. I've been dressing more recently and enjoying it, so I thought I'd try to become more active here as well.
Anyway, last evening I decided to go out for a stroll while dressed and made up. This was a bit of an adventure for me, as I usually stay at home when I dress.
I was dressed in black heels, black stockings, a dress with a sweater over it, a scarf and an overcoat due to the cold weather. I had a few glasses of wine to build up courage beforehand
Although it was cold, there were many people out and about - I live near the city center and lots of people go out here on weekend nights.
I'm usually somewhat reserved in male mode, and I felt much more reserved while dressed. I'm sure others have felt this too... Within a minute of leaving my apartment, a car with a few guys stopped and the driver asked me if I was headed towards downtown. I was too embarrassed to interact with them and looked down and said no! The driver said to the passenger "she said no", and they drove on.
Then I strolled about for a while, occasionally passing other persons walking around or groups of people. I didn't want them to identify me as a tv, so I usually looked away!
After a while I was too cold to stay out, so I headed back to my apartment. Near my home I passed a group of about 8 girls and guys (college students) who were obviously headed into town. One guy said to me "hey, are you doing okay"?, to which I answered "sure, how are you" in my normal voice without stopping, although I saw a strange expression on his face (lol, need to practice feminizing my voice!)
Anyway, it was a fun short adventure... I'd like to be able to feel more comfortable while dressed and just be able to talk to people normally. Ideally having the attitude "yes, I'm a crossdresser/transvestite- so what?" and just smile and laugh and be social about it. Anyone have any tips?
Steffi