I've had a lot going on lately, so I haven't done anything since my first time in the public eye. Some of that is to combat the typical pink fog you get from that first exposure (yes I had it!). But a while back, I had talked with my wife and agreed that she could let one of her best friends in on things so she could have someone to talk to, face-to-face.
Well last night, one of those friends was over at the house as her and my wife were about to go out. My wife is about 6 feet away mouthing something. Am I the only one that can't ever tell what someone is trying to get across when they do that? Anyway, I can pick up what she is getting at and shrug my shoulders. So she tells her and the friend goes "That's chill". Okay, I pause and wait for facial expressions so I know if that was good or bad. She gets a big smile and I breathe again. So what was her first question? Not "was I gay" or "was I getting surgery" but "Do you have a lot of sequined dresses?". Well that got me laughing, but I said no. She then said that she had to do my hair. That was about as far as it went as they had to go.
So later, they get back and my wife tells me that she later called the other best friend and told her. First I said "You can't tell someone over the phone!". Then of course curiosity kicked in and I asked what she said. My wife told me "Totally awesome". Did she have any questions? No, my wife said. Wow, neither one asked the big "two".
So now I am sitting here with the one told first. I show her some pictures and she wanted to check out my shoes and forms. She got a kick out of some of the stuff I kept out in the open. But she goes home and I think about the other one. I first text her a picture of a bra that I references in my Facebook status that she previously thought was a joke (http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=123429) and I said "I wouldn't lie to you". Her reply was "You totally rock! :-)". When I got up this morning, there was another text from her that got the conversation going again. I told her that it is a little scary to tell a friend and possibly risk that friendship. She came back with "I think it is awesome. I totally get it".
So it couldn't have gone any better, at least initially. I know the caveats apply. See what happens down the road. But I am starting off with what seems like great acceptance and there are no bus treads on me yet.