I get the really strong urge about once every other week. That's the get-together schedule for me and my CD sister to get together and dress. It's not enough sometimes, but it's OK.
I get the really strong urge about once every other week. That's the get-together schedule for me and my CD sister to get together and dress. It's not enough sometimes, but it's OK.
Every mornng when I get up. The public would look askance on me were I to do otherwise. And here in northern New England, it would be darned uncomfortable too.
Two weeks ago my wife asked me Tina was jealous of me. I didn't understand so she went on to explain that she wondered if Tina was jealous of all the time I got to spend as a male, i.e. all the time I spend as a male with my wife.
Of course, part of the question leads to "how often would Tina like to here?" which is the question of this thread. I thought about it a lot and said that I didn't know how much time Tina would really like. She surely doesn't think she's reached any kind of limit, but that life's needs kept her from dressing more than a few times a month. In fact it's also Tina's ritual that keeps her from dressing more than that because it's the time it takes to transform that leads to the need for a good block of time to BE Tina after spending a while preparing to be Tina.
So the answer for me right now is a few times a month, but the question has been raised inside the household, and it will be interesting to see if the frequency increases, especially if Tina begins some craft projects that she needs to see through!
This is a fascinating life!
Tina
[SIZE="3"]About twice a month, inside. Have worn pantyhose under pajamas, once a week, because its cold. When i move back in with my 89 yr old dad, i won't be dressing fem at all, for a long time, unless he passes away soon. Karren, I can understand, that mate or family can keep one from dressing, uh...unless its for hockey dressing! Go Blackhawks![/SIZE]
I usually try to dress once a week but life sometimes gets in the way. Recently I have started to force myself to put on makeup which adds to the "prep" time. I am free to wear what I want to bed and I can be happy by just wearing a nightgown as well.
Ellen
At the moment, I can't. It's no big deal.
I agree with Steph...if I'm walking out the door I'm dressed. Since most of what I wear anymore is from the ladies dept, does that still make me a cross-dresser?
Jenn
i dress about three hours a week, but would like to a least four
hour a day. or more
Tina L.
I wish it came on some sort of schedule. Sometimes it builds, sometimes it's sudden. Sometimes it's just a night, sometimes a weekend...
- Natalie
P.S. that's what part of the alphabet would look like if Q and R where eliminated.
-Mitch Headburg
"If you think you think outside the box, you're trapped in one"
- M.C. Paul Barman
atlest twice a month if I get the chance i don't get much time to dress anymore
Good bye i'm at wacko taco .com now
Well, I'm not a lady or a GG. But at this point, I dress almost daily. There's no reason not to, and I generally feel more comfortable when dressed as a female.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
I really don't "need" to do it at all. When I want to do it, I go out and socialize with my friends, have a few drinks and have fun dancing. Just sitting there looking pretty is not my thing.
Second star to the right and straight on till morning
On average I dress in some form 4 of 5 days but it's more frequent in the winter and the older I get, the less I use make up indoors.
I dress in full 99 % of my days: wig, pocketed bra c/w forms & nips ,panties,pantyhose, skirt and blouse.
I find comfy nighties very hard to find otherwise I would wear one every night.
I guess I am lucky in a way and not as fortunate as you that are married. I am single(divorced not because of dressing) I wear panties and girls jeans or shorts ever day plus sleep in a gown ever night. now that I am out of work I find I am always wearing girl tops with my jeans. and I wear wedge sandals most of the time now to. The only reason I still figure my self as a cd instead of of a tg is I still have to work as a male in the work force.
What I like and need are entirely seperate I guess.
I like to dress whenever possible whilst still touching bases with friends and family, and most importantly, my GF.
How often do I NEED?
Once a month. Tops.
Im able to keep it under reins for now.
Doesnt mean I dont get urges.
Samantha -x-
I am fortunate that I can work from home, so I dress pretty much every day - at least for a few hours. And because my wife is supportive, I am dressed every evening - unless company is coming.
It is hard to say. I only been dress completely one time and that was up in VEgas. Read about it in makeover in Vegas in one of the threads. I'm going to VEgas again this weekend so the opportunity might avail itself. I am partially dress, in some form of female atire at least 2x a seek. I usually find a time to wear panties on the weekend and every so often will get dress up with my wife. She is for the most part supported.
I don't know how to define "need" in this context. There are times I have an encounter with the pink fog and I find the first opportunity to dress as fully as possible. Other times the fog hits and it's just terribly inconvienent and I have to put off getting my girl on until the world is cooperative again. Same pink fog but different response.
These days I dress en femme at least once a week and get out once a month. I'll underdress occasionally, but it doesn't do much to keep the fog pushed back from my door. It's only a concession to the inevitibility of getting pretty at the next reasonable opportunity. I think the measure is how often do I get cranky if I don't dress? Right now once a week is working.
Sarah
Being transgender isn't a lifestyle choice. How you deal with it is.
i normally dress completly enfemme every sat while wife is at work but about 3 times a year she goes to her mothers and stays for a week at a time i then spend the whole week dressed completly wig makeup the works during the week a male friend comes and stays for 5 of the 7 days and while he is here we are like husband and wife i cook for him and we share the same bed
I dress a couple times a week and around my wife as applicable to when I am dressed. I find the need to dress is increasing in frequency but also the duration (most of the day if possible).
sometimes i have to do it everyday, its like an urge, and sometimes i do it very sparingly, like maybe once a week or every 2 weeks. but always feels good when i do!