Thats how i feel "blue", i should be elated, i've ticked so many boxes now. Been out shopping as Clarrisa yesterday and today, have no problems regards going about my business...go into changing rooms with no struggle..i've overcome so many fears...today after shopping i even stopped at a Costa Coffee, sat down, drank and watched the world go by.It felt totally natural....why "sad"? it isn't just the fact that its back to work as usual tommorrow thus back to drab...its because its hit home to me that i should have been doing this 15 years ago..yet fear, circumstances (living with parents), crap job, prevented me...i turned 40 last weekend....I'm practically living as a women, part time,been single for ages, but i have other lives..my guitar and band practice...the job.plus i finally have a date with a GG soon....i feel sad because, i think i realy wish this wasn't just "part time", i wish i was a girl full time..i wish i could somehow go back 10 years and tell myself to transistion. I think i allways knew, but i just thought it was impossible for me to do it, to fund it...to come out to family...to give up looking for the "dream - girl" to spend my life with....Perhaps this is what its like when the "Pink fogs'" at its densest. For all the joy and happiness i get to express this femme side, almost at any time i like...theres a flip side...the depression of knowing that i'm "not that Girl"....and that Loud yearning inside thats screaming "I WANT TO BE A WOMAN"....
Am wondering how others like me are feeling and coping with this, maybe at the tip of transistioning, but holding back because of all the up hieval it could cause...impact on relationships, finances...etc..
Clarrisa x