View Poll Results: Who to be 'caught' with

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  • Nextdoor neighbour

    24 16.44%
  • Your Mother

    25 17.12%
  • Your Father

    2 1.37%
  • Your Sister

    29 19.86%
  • Your Brother

    4 2.74%
  • You best friend

    40 27.40%
  • Dont care - just as long as someone does!!

    22 15.07%
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Thread: Getting caught

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    Louise UK LouiseCassell's Avatar
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    Getting caught

    If you 'had' to be caught whilst dressing en femme who would you rather have caught you?

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    Tristen Cox
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    I didn't see girlfriend on the poll, I think if that happened and worked out it would be cool.

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    Louise UK LouiseCassell's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tristen Cox
    I didn't see girlfriend on the poll, I think if that happened and worked out it would be cool.

    I would count girlfriend as being best friend (well damm well should be!!)

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    True, I would hope so too

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    Louise UK LouiseCassell's Avatar
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    Good girl, you know it makes sense!

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    A tie between mother or best friend at the moment. No real surprises here then!

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    Hey you two,

    Let me break into this private conversation to tell you, it's a pretty neat poll (cool).
    I voted for the last entry, thats exactly the way I feel.

    This is post number 99, tomorrow (today really) I'll start a new thread for 100 all though the topic is still in limbo.

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    I voted sister I think my brothers would be quite cool about it also, but obviously they would all see me in a different way(it's only natural) and I'm not sure I would want that.
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    How about meeting up with another crossdresser who's never been caught? For me, that would make getting caught some what more bareable.
    Man! I feel like a woman!

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    Quote Originally Posted by LouiseCassell
    A tie between mother or best friend at the moment. No real surprises here then!
    Tie broke

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    with out seeing wife there i had to say mouther ..............

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    Hmmm!.

    I would have to say sister but since i never have had one this is difficult to express. I am kind of feeling sorry nowthat i never had a sister to share with it is kind of bugging me that this never was. I think now i was suppose to be a sister in this life incarnation and perhaps this is why i am identifying as female myself. Oh well just a random thought. Perhaps. If it could only come to be. Suzy!.

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    How about......

    Sister - In - Law!!!!

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    Well, I don't have a sister, and my wife already knows, as does my mother, so that limits the answers, unless . . . if no one knew, it would be my mother. In fact I tried to get caught by her, and managed to do so once when I was about 15.
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    I voted mother, sadly "Drop dead gorgeous young blonde Lesbian" wasn't on the list.

    Wife already knew before she caught me, I had owned up ages before!

    LOL, Rachael.
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    Girlfriend was the best, and she didnt really catch me...more like encouraged me to try on her clothes. I think she knew I wanted to somehow, she just wont tell me that. She is better than I could have ever asked for

    As for other people...I dont know. I have walked out of our apartment, and have seen the neighbors, but no one has ever said anything. I also think my mom knows, just because I think more or less parents know everything we try to keep from them (atleast when we are young and live at home).

    I dont know what my closer male friends reactions would be, and I am not ready to find out lol

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    My Mum definately! I came from a home full of males and Mum was the only girl.

    I'm also pretty sure my Mum knew or suspected when i was a teenager - can't keep secrets from Mothers no matter how hard we try!

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    truly embarrassing

    Ok, now before I start this story, I really NEED to preface it by saying that this was a one time stupid adolescent kid thing. When I was 17 my parents went out of town for a few days so I decided that I had about 3 days of solitude with which I would of course spend dressed the entire time. Well, I decided to have a little shopping spree as Dani. (By the way, this was my first time ever going out in public) I quickly blew threw all the money I had on all sorts of new clothes (being 17 with no job, that didn't take too long) I still liked the thrill of being out in public so I continued to "shop" with no money and eventually found something I couldn't live without. It was the perfect skirt and top to match. Sad to say I gave in and shoplifted it. Of course I got caught. Apparantly, I didn't pass as well as I thought I did and the security was called about a "man in the women's dressing room" so therefore they were already suspicious. When the police officer was taking back to the station, I was practically begging him to let me change clothes in the car before going, but he wouldn't. While being processed in, all of the officers were poking fun at me "you shouldn't wear a spring dress in the winter" what can I say? I liked the shorter skirt. They put me in my own cell for the night (for my own safety) and gave me an orange jumpsuit and flip flops to wear. The next day, my older brother and his wife came to bail me out and they released me. Unfortunately the only clothes I had were the ones that I came in with. I had just spent the entire night trying to wash all of my makeup off only to be put back in my short skirt and heels without any makeup in the middle of the day.....walking across a crowded police station parking lot. I have never been so embarrassed in my entire life. My brother, to this day, has not ever mentioned this episode. And I am glad. Now if that kind of punishment could be implemented for all crimes, then there would be far less of it.....I know I will never even think about it again. I am sorry this was so long. It's just that it happens to be my one and only time being outed and boy was it in a big way!
    Dani

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tristen Cox
    Tie broke


    always thought ties were a silly and useless garment so glad its broke!

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    Quote Originally Posted by danigrrl
    Ok, now before I start this story, I really NEED to preface it by saying that this was a one time stupid adolescent kid thing. When I was 17 my parents went out of town for a few days so I decided that I had about 3 days of solitude with which I would of course spend dressed the entire time. Well, I decided to have a little shopping spree as Dani. (By the way, this was my first time ever going out in public) I quickly blew threw all the money I had on all sorts of new clothes (being 17 with no job, that didn't take too long) I still liked the thrill of being out in public so I continued to "shop" with no money and eventually found something I couldn't live without. It was the perfect skirt and top to match. Sad to say I gave in and shoplifted it. Of course I got caught. Apparantly, I didn't pass as well as I thought I did and the security was called about a "man in the women's dressing room" so therefore they were already suspicious. When the police officer was taking back to the station, I was practically begging him to let me change clothes in the car before going, but he wouldn't. While being processed in, all of the officers were poking fun at me "you shouldn't wear a spring dress in the winter" what can I say? I liked the shorter skirt. They put me in my own cell for the night (for my own safety) and gave me an orange jumpsuit and flip flops to wear. The next day, my older brother and his wife came to bail me out and they released me. Unfortunately the only clothes I had were the ones that I came in with. I had just spent the entire night trying to wash all of my makeup off only to be put back in my short skirt and heels without any makeup in the middle of the day.....walking across a crowded police station parking lot. I have never been so embarrassed in my entire life. My brother, to this day, has not ever mentioned this episode. And I am glad. Now if that kind of punishment could be implemented for all crimes, then there would be far less of it.....I know I will never even think about it again. I am sorry this was so long. It's just that it happens to be my one and only time being outed and boy was it in a big way!
    Dani
    Reading that just gave me chills. I couldnt imagine that happening...

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    When I was about 15-16 my parents went away on holiday so I had the house to myself for a week. I spent most of it dressing up in my mum or sisters clothes but after a few days I developed the immense urge to be seen. In a fit of utter teenage stupidity I phoned a mobile hairdresser and made an appointment for her to come round. I had no intension of having my hair cut, I just wanted to be seen be a complete stranger and of course it had to be a woman. So the next day I got dressed in my mums little black pleated skirt, planned my moment of exposure and waited. I planned it so she would go to the back door, so she could see into the rear dinning room and I walked through to get to the back door. She knocked on the door and I went through the dinning room to the bacl door, I can't remember if she actually looked into the dining room or not. I opened the back door about halfway but not fully so she couldn't blatantly see I was wearing a skirt while standing there and she explained she was there to cut someones hair. I said she must have the wrong house and she left.
    My parents came home the next day and the day after I came home from school to a little shock. A police officer was in the living room talking to my mum and dad. He explained he was there due to a woman making a complaint about me wasting her time. My dad then escorted the officer to the door while my mother told me the police officer had told them I had invited the hairdresser round and when she came round she saw I was wearing a skirt. I totally denied it and she asked if there was something I wanted to talk about. I said no, and she said if there was something I need to discuss she would be willing to listen. I again said there was nothing to discuss and the matter was dropped there, never to be discussed again.

    Needless to say that was one of the most embarrasing moments of my life. But it's something to look back on with a grin.
    Last edited by ~Tammy~; 08-11-2005 at 03:26 PM. Reason: Typo's as pointed out by my dah-ling Tamara :)

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    I was caught by a neighbour while wearing make-up.

    I was unaware she saw me.....

    Until several days later when her daughters told me they knew.

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    Getting " caught" by my mum was a relief!
    It was so great!
    I thought it was going to be "never darken my doorstep again"
    Thanks Mum

    Love Angela XX

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    I think my (grown up) daughter would be more understanding than anyone else I know! And we have a great relationship anyway.

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