I just gave up one the whole thing and go with the flow. For the most part I am pretty seamless in my day to day private life. I dont talk about being trans nor do I really care.
At work I do capitolize on being trans and do a lot of work for the trans community by educating the general public on how to help work with them in a positive way.
The one thing I like to say is that when all the fireworks die off, your past SRS and you are living what was once a dream it all of a sudden become normal life.
Perhaps that is why I love working with CDs. They often have a dream I once had and they visualize things but in reality being a girl is normal life.
Someone asked me the other day what it is like having an vagina. He went on to say he has always dreampt. My response was that life is about the same as it was before. I get up, get dressed, go to work, play rollerderby, do all the stuff I did before and to tell ya the truth I dont think about what is between my legs. Now there is one bonus, I dont have to wear a cup anymore!
