There are many threads and postings here about going out, passing , blending, interaction with others or whatever that seem to be major success stories for the somewhat bolder CD's and TG's here. My question is: Inspired by these highly successful folks, what is stopping you from just going out and doing what you want as your femme or as some have stated your "real" self?
I know the answers are probably various and sundry and in most cases predictable. This is the real conundrum about crossdressing and the very nature of the "beast" and reason it will never be accepted in the mainstream. By definition it has to be an individual thing as each person has to find their own comfort level at their own pace. So what is stopping you from going out and totally fulfilling being your femme or "real" self in the way you would like to?