This is directed mostly towards those who go all out en femme when going out in public to interact and/or intermingle with others. How do you act? By that I mean what is your manner? Are you just yourself or do you attempt to portray a different image entirely? It's mentioned here how some will go to great lengths to learn to walk and talk like a woman when en femme. What do you think is accomplished by doing that and do you think anyone other than yourself really cares and do you really think it's necessary?
It's been my experience that most people will accept you for being the person you are, appearance notwithstanding. Sometimes it makes it that much more difficult to be accepted when we are putting on some kind of act or "front" and others know it. I've noticed many CD's sit isolated in the corner afraid to interact but women(who we want to emulate) are friendly and outgoing for the most part.
Regardless of how well we may be able to "pass" or "blend" being at ease and being ourselves as much as possible will not only bring us more liklihood of acceptance but will make us feel better as well.