Hi Spacey,
This is a tough call. My thinking is that if she found your stask once, she may go back and look again. Is there anyway you can position your clothes so you know she looked at them? I'm not saying to do any devious, just do it to set your own mind at ease. Seems like you are unsure and that can drive you nuts...I know.
My wife does not know the full extent of Kristen and while I think I am a good husband and father, that may be the reason I don't get too much pushback on some of my little desires like wearing panties on occassion with her.
I would go easy and see what unfolds and just be prepared with some simple answers.
