So I'm living the first year of my life completely on my own when i can dress pretty much whenever I darn well feel like it. I've gotten use to it. I really don't do it all that often. Maybe once or twice a month. More if my girlfriend is around cuz she loves it, but she lives 3 hours away so our times together are sort of limited.
At any rate, I recently openned up my door to the guitarist in my band becuase he'd been having marital troubles and needed a place to stay. It was only suppose to be for a couple of weeks at first, but then it became appearant that it was going to last longer than that. I'm out to my family, but none of my non-cd friends know about my cding. Nobody in my band does. Bottom line is, I feel kind of bad that becuase I'm not ready to lay it all out on the table to my close friends, cding became a consideration in whether i can continue to help out my friend. Don't get me wrong, there are other factors to consider. This person has no job currently and right now I can't afford another mouth to feed, looking for work myself and supporting my son. I would never put the guy out in the cold. He did have "less convenient" possibilities to stay at his mother's.
It's like I just wanted to tell him "dude, I'm a crossdresser and when my GF is in town get use to the freak show". It just doesn't seem that simple.
What would you all do?
