Originally Posted by
gabimartini
This new year has been one of firsts for me. In a little over 30 days, I first truly started to accept my CDing, first did convincing makeup, got a first full-body wax, went for my first outing, which ended being also my first passing. I thought that by exploring (instead of repressing) and allowing these emotions to surface, that things would level and cool off for a while. I thought I would start to get some answers.
However, quite the opposite is happening. There are still a lot of very strong and unresolved emotions going through my mind. I've started to get a bit overwhelmed and don't really know what to do. I had never lost control over my CDing before, and now I am just helpless. This seems to be a never-ending urge. I want to dress 24x7, just can't get enough of it. It's awfully hard to go back to drabs, and when I do, I'm generally grumpy, stand-offish and bummed.
In order to be able to dress that much, I'm shutting down my male persona and isolating myself from everybody else, spouse, family, friends, work. I'm only happy and sociable in girl mode. It's almost as if I had finally gotten in touch with my true self, so I don't see why I need to give that up!
Anybody here ever went through a similar urge? When? What did you do? Did it go away? What was the ultimate outcome? I just want to be able to find some measure of balance in my life, so that I can go gack to having a life, in the first place!
Thanks for reading!
PS: I am considering counseling, but what I'd like to hear is your own personal stories and experiences, if you can share.