Ok, before I ask, I want to explain where I am coming from.
I am a out and open bisexual. I have been out with a you if you don't like it attitude for about 15 years. I now volunteer with/for HRC, ACLU, GLAAD, and various other organizations.
I go to PRIDE and volunteer every year that I can make it, even when I was pregnant and swollen and it was 90 degrees out, LOL
The current campaigns I am working on are getting rid of Don't Ask Don't Tell and over turning DOMA.
I have gotten in numerous debates and, when I was younger, physical fights, over the rights and need for equality for the LGBT community.
When Nicole, my SO, came out to me as a CD, I didn't hesitate to except and support her.
And for me it goes beyond the fact that I believe EVERYONE should be open and honest AND excepted and treated equally.
To me it was the fact that this is the person I love and I made a vow that I would love my partner in sickness and in health til death do us part.
Short of Nicole cheating on me I can not think of anything that would cause me to not support and love her.
Sorry this is so long, and here comes the touchy bit...
What, in the opinion of those of you who have not come out, is the worst thing that would happen if you DID come out to your SO?
And, if the worst thing was that he or she would leave you, don't you think that you deserve better?
Don't you think that you DESERVE to be with someone who WILL support you and love you no matter what?
I am not saying come out and your SO be damned, I am just wondering because I can not imagine keeping such a large part of myself hidden from the one person I am supposed to be the most comfortable with,
and I want to understand where you all are coming from.
Hope this hasn't hurt or offended anyone, I just really want to know all of your thoughts on that.
Thank you for your time, sorry so long