I've seen this time and again and even felt some of it myself. I recently read some literature which kind of put this into perspective for me but I have to ask.
There seems to be a subset of cders who desire to take hormones to develop more feminine physical characteristics but who don't necessarily consider themselves to have been born into the wrong body. What I mean is, the posts that read "I've been thinking about transitioning and I think I want to do it." or "If I had my way I would transition but I'm not going to because of A, B, C...".
I'm not saying there is anything wrong with this point of view, I consider myself dual-gendered and if my body more readily showed that I would happily accept it, but at the same time taking hormones or getting surgeries is a BIG deal and I don't think the notion should be thrown around even remotely casually.
I'm not trying to offend anyone or start a fiery debate or point fingers or anything, so please don't take this the wrong way. I am just curious how others feel about someone who doesn't feel that the ONLY way they can live is to transition and live full time as a woman taking hormones and using other body/ mind altering procedures to adopt a more feminine appearance. Mind you I'm not talking about shaving, or voice or pierced ears etc. but more the things that fall securely into the perceived realm of transsexuals.
Is this just a matter of not understanding what transitioning is really all about or maybe just a desire to have the cake and eat it to? Is it a cop out, or some kind of fantasy that just plain shouldn't be played out in reality? Science is allowing our bodies to be able to be modified to match what we feel inside, is there a line that is drawn, or should be drawn or is it all fair game?
(and yeah, I'm starting counseling next week cause I might be starting to really lose my grip on reality, lol)