It has been over a year since my wife busted me. We had some difficult times but have reached agreement on my dressing in terms of where, when and how often. My wife does not want to be involved at all. I am satisfied with the terms she agreed to. The trouble is that although she has kept her end of the deal, my dressing is causing her all kinds of emotional trauma.
I would like to go to counseling to see if it would relieve some of her stress but she is so embarrased by the situation she cannot bear to speak to someone in person. I am hoping there is an online counselor who is experianced in dealing with spouses of cross dressers.
Has any used or found a service like this?
Please let me know names or emails or phone numbers if you can.
Edited Thursday night 3/4/10
I am sorry if I was not clear in my posting above. My wife has not been embarrased in public by me. All my cd activity is in a very dark and closed closet. She has never seen me dressed nor has she seen any pictures of me dressed. She has never seen any of my enfemme clothing. We have made a peace between us. We cuddle in bed every morning for an hour after the alarm goes off. Having said that she still cannot emotionally accept my dressing and it is causing her a great amount of emotional distress. The reason I am looking for on line counseling is that she feels she is too embarrased to look someone in the eye and say her husband is a crossdresser. I am hoping it will be easier for her online or over the phone.
The GG's on this forum,especially the moderators, have been very forthcoming and helpful and I thank them for their time and efforet. This problem nees professional help.
So if you know of any professional who has online or telephone counseling services I would love to hear from you.
Thanks,
Kathy Leigh