Well ladies I finally had the courage to tell someone of my secret crossdressing lifestyle. I have read many stories regarding others telling dear old mom and getting her support that after much contemplation I decided that today would be the day.
We live in different countries so it had to be over the phone. I had a few stiff drinks ahead of time and called her up. We chatted about the regular things going on in our lives and idle gossip. That was when I went for gold.....
I mentioned I had to go out shopping for my wife for her birthday and of course mom jumped on it, "What are you getting her?"
I mentioned a couple of blouses for work and of course her response was, "Well if you don't know what to get she can return it." I simply stated that I knew what would work and it wouldn't be a problem.
Her comment was "That's good, my son knows how to pick out womens clothing!!!" of course this was in jest........
There was my opening.......
I asked her "Mom can I get something off my chest that we can keep private?"
Her response was that anything serious was always kept between us......
I went for gold, "MOM, I'm a crossdresser and have been since my early teenage years."
Mom didn't miss a beat, some laughter, questions;
- Guess you didn't wear my bra growing up?
- How Long have I been doing this?
- Does my wife know?
- etc
more laughter, she actually thought I was pulling her leg.
I strongly informed her that the gay lifestyle was not part of my dressing.
Thankfully she agreed and said that she is educated enough to know the difference between gay men, crossdressers, people interested in sex changes
more laughter.
When it finally sank in she mentioned that she had no idea.
We talked more and more for at least an hour.
She even asked what I was wearing while on the phone, I guess she picked up on my comment of having the day off alone to relax as myself.
More support, she even mentioned about me going out occassionally for a girls night when the local clubs get together.
I told her that when she comes to visit we can go shopping together. And she seemed interested. I told her that I would buy her clothes, that sealed the deal.
Anyway, it feels great to have a confidant in my corner, someone to chat with on occassion regarding girly things.
Next hurdle will be telling my beautiful wife, that will not be anytime soon so I will have time to keep thinking about my attack plan.
Moms do indeed rule..........
Jennifer72