Hi everyone! This is my fist thread!
As some of you know, my wife doesn’t support my CDing. Four years ago, she even gave all my stuff to the Salvation Army, burned my wig and threaten to divorce me if I would do it again. Of course, I’ve started doing it again a few months later as it’s part of who I really am....Now, I have to hide or be away on a business trip to dress up....feeling very lonely...dressing up only 3-4 times per year.
I’ve been getting closer to a good woman’s friend over the last 6 months...a former work colleague...who is just simply very stunning. I’ve had the courage to tell her about my crossdressing a few months ago. She finally agreed to not only see me dressed, but also to take a few pictures, go out shopping and eat at a restaurant as 2 girlfriends....
Well, the “big” day happened at the end of January. She was by my side throughout my transformation : dressing up, long french nails, make-up...everything...and she loved it! Because she thought I looked good enough to go out with me (that was the deal!), we then went shopping as two girls, went out at the restaurant where we were both treated as ladies...it was simply fantastic. Finally, someone willing to listen, understand and most importantly be with me!!!
Of course, she took my first ever pics...they’re in my album! I wear jeans (not a dress)....as you know, I can’t shave my legs/arms/etc as my wife doesn’t know I still get dressed....with long hair to my lower back (I always wanted to have it very long!) and long french nails!
Well, a few weeks ago, I had the courage to talk to my hairdresser about my CDing & this unforgettable night. She's also beautiful woman...mid thirties...long hair (mid back)....beautiful nails...gorgeous looking...She's been trying to have me grow my hair to at least shoulder length for years...Not that I don't want...and she knows that...but can't due to work.
Anyway, she goes on to tell me again that I should let it grow at least shoulder length...So I told her how about longer than that? She answered yes, a little longer pass your shoulder would suit you great! I'm getting all excited on the chair ..and decide to go all the way and said how about to my lower back? She looked at me surprised...but with a smile on her face. Then, I opened up and told her about my wig...and crossdressing! She was all smile & almost as excited as I was! She couldn't wait to see my pics and gave me her personal email address. So I sent her the same pics that I have in my album. She got back to me a few days after, writing “WOW! Love you hair & feminine looks. You definitely pass!”
WOW......unbelievable....
My dear friend Miranda mentioned that she has also found that women and man that have chosen that line of work (hairdresser, cosmetician) are the most open-minded and accepting when it comes to alternative lifestyles..
Do you agree? Have you a similar type of story to share? I would love to hear from you!
Adelaide